Gift² = Gifts that Give Again (and Again!)
You wake up in your warm bed to the sounds of laughter and the stomping of stocking feet. It smells like an apple cinnamon ‘Yankee Candle’ was lit down the hall and you breathe in deeply. You have a turkey and a pecan pie to put in the oven, so you drag yourself from your king sized nest and say a quick prayer that the spiral cut ham isn’t still frozen. The kids have already torn through their gifts and you hear someone fighting over double A batteries. You hope to yourself that your honey remembered to buy your favorite designer fragrance this year, and not another knock-off, because everyone knows what poor quality fragrance does for your allergies. As you stumble over the wrapping paper, discarded 6 packs of underpants and bold holiday sweaters you’re reminded; it’s another average Christmas morning in another average American home.
Across the ocean on the very same Christmas morning, the Fulani family in Zambia is getting ready for their holiday. Their village is having a nativity play at the church 10 miles away and if they’re going to make it there on time, they’d better start walking. Usually on Christmas, if it has been a good year, each family purchases one chicken for Christmas dinner. They usually eat beans and peanut powder for protein, but it’s the holidays, why not splurge?! The Fulani’s have adopted three more orphaned villagers this year bringing their family head count to 15, so Auntie is going to have to find a way to stretch their five pound hen. There are no presents this year, as it was the year before, but one of the Fulani children is going to school this January and needs books and shoes, so Auntie awards Kasune with the only gifts she’ll receive this year. Yet despite their extreme poverty; the men, women and children in Zambia are going to sing, rejoice, and celebrate the birth of Christ in a church miles away. For they know that, although they are poor and ailing, their songs and smiles are the only gifts most will be receiving this Holiday season.
Many of us are fortunate enough to have experienced the satisfaction of receiving what we wanted for Christmas, and some of us might have only gotten the things we needed. Still, we had a “holiday.” Courtesy of the internet and cable television, the American people aren’t blind to the poverty that infests our world. Some of us are even generous enough to donate money, clothes or rice to people whose names we can’t pronounce in countries we wouldn’t ever dream of seeing. These days it isn’t a rarity to purchase a goat or 10 chickens in someone’s name. In fact, many people are using these charities as a substitute for average everyday gift giving. The recipient only gets a card stating that the gift giver spent money to donate livestock or grain to a suffering ‘third-worlder’ so that they may feed their families. Usually, the recipient says ‘thank you’ and mentions what a nice thought it was, while promptly tossing out the card and raising an eyebrow at you when the check for dinner arrives. Your kind gesture was somehow cast aside because the gift itself made no real impact on the recipient.
It’s the Holiday season and people are scrounging up money for gift cards and plastic toys, why can’t we serve several purposes with our American dollars? My friends may not want yaks donated in their name, or perhaps they don’t believe feeding a man a fish is better than teaching him how to do it on his own. Yet, how can we satisfy our taste for knick-knacks and holiday gift-giving, while still quenching our thirst to ‘do good’ and change the world?
Fair trade is the answer to that very question. Countries all around our globe are utilizing indigenous resources to manufacture a variety of different products. These products are harvested, assembled, and packaged by everyday men and women in third world countries and then sold. Profits received from the sale of these goods will go back to the tribe or village who produced them and literally; put clothing on their backs and food in their mouths.
In many communities in Africa, Christmas is looked forward to all year long. Many villages coordinate dances, nativity plays, and sing-alongs; while gift-giving (if done at all) is done by way of school supplies. So before you buy your significant other that ‘nose hair clipper’ they don’t want, why not purchase a gift that makes them happy, makes you feel great, and makes a difference in the life of a complete stranger who lives countries away?
Gift (squared) is a concept that encompasses our desire to make purchases while satisfying the need to ‘do good’. What if, instead of the free calendar or the complementary address labels you get for your donation to a charity, you actually bought something you wanted and it worked just as hard (if not harder) than those cash donations you make each year? Try it on for size this Holiday and we promise you won’t be the only one smiling!
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